I light my bowl with incense. I turn on the stove, burn the incense, and light up. Not for anything supernatural ; I just don’t play with matches. The message I took from my parents. Why? Well when I decided to play with fire I was burned instantly. So I learned my lesson early on.
I didn’t listen to every piece of advice though. They also told me “not to talk to boys”
“Don’t let them touch you”